My First Blog: Individual Differences That Hinders Happiness
Everyone is totally different. We all have different personalities and types. What excites me may bore you. What you don't mind may amuse me. We're different. We can't avoid it. We're just what we are.
It's impossible to make everyone in the world feel loved and accepted. If you ask my friends what kind of person I am, may be some of them will tell you I'm a cheerful, nice and friendly person; but, there are people out there who thinks that I'm not a good person and who only cares about myself. Well, that makes me a not so nice person but everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I just have to respect theirs.
You can't please everyone. That's why you shouldn't care what people think of you. If people like you...that's wonderful! If they don't, never mind. It's better to focus on those people who like you and accept you for who you are. If people don't like you, it may be hard but that's already their problem not yours. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to decipher why they think you're like this and like that. It isn't until you understand who you really are that you will be able to live life and not care about what others say.
Everyone is totally different. We all have different personalities and types. What excites me may bore you. What you don't mind may amuse me. We're different. We can't avoid it. We're just what we are.
It's impossible to make everyone in the world feel loved and accepted. If you ask my friends what kind of person I am, may be some of them will tell you I'm a cheerful, nice and friendly person; but, there are people out there who thinks that I'm not a good person and who only cares about myself. Well, that makes me a not so nice person but everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I just have to respect theirs.
You can't please everyone. That's why you shouldn't care what people think of you. If people like you...that's wonderful! If they don't, never mind. It's better to focus on those people who like you and accept you for who you are. If people don't like you, it may be hard but that's already their problem not yours. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to decipher why they think you're like this and like that. It isn't until you understand who you really are that you will be able to live life and not care about what others say.
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